I have found the problem and its a stupid one.... i had fan mount off for awhile and finally put back on(found screws for it again) and the fan was ON THE WRONG WAY so it was taking air away from the card, stupid me. Now temps are much better, no higher than 70C and on "auto" it seems to put the fan speed at 60% so alot quieter aswell. Cant believe i missed that lol.