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Don't let things like this get to you... Life sucks for everyone, you need to be cheerful and just deal with life...
Maybe reading about Buddhism would be good for you... it helps some people, I think it would be a good psychological treatment for you.
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Edit by Nick: Jeez dude, don't go sticking your mail addy on a public forum, you'll get spammed to hell and back.
Do it by PM.
Last edited by Nick; 08-12-2008 at 01:43 AM.
Just throwing this out here....
Have you ever pondered the idea that you use your neck click as the reason things aren't going so good for you right now, to just cover up that you scared to go out and do something about it? I think as soon as you forget about the neck clicking thing and stop using it as an excuse for why you never end up talking to people or whatever, you will find things getting alot better.
Just my two cents, I'm probably totally wrong but maybe I helped in some way.
dude, thats true, but then there are things which genuinely are affected by my neck
i wouldn't post an email link on the forum, it'll get spammed to hell by spam bots...
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And after the edit, my thoughts:
Seems like you're totally dwelling on a clicky neck and either using it as an excuse for not doing something or going through a convoluted series of 'what if?' possibilities to blame your neck on something that may or may not have happened or will happen.
Stop obsessing on your neck is the short answer.
Everyone but everyone has regrets and 'what if?' or 'if only!' moments... but we don't stop that interfering with just getting on with life.
All I can say is that however bad you think things will be, they're are never worse than how bad you made them out to be in your head... once you realise that your own fear of something is always far worse than the real fear, you'll soon find that life becomes a LOT easier... (and chicks sooo dig it).
DONT SCROLL DOWN IF YOU CRY EASILY.
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Pictures edited out by Zak cos they were too harsh. Sorry.
One was of a boy in an orphanage, god only knows where, starving and the other of a little baby in Somalia, dead, about to be eaten by a vulture.
THOSE ARE REASONS TO GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE.
A clicky neck and a memory are minimal. trust me
Last edited by Zak33; 08-12-2008 at 10:41 AM. Reason: I was wrong to post them. Too Harsh
Exactly. I think about that kind of stuff all of the time. The world we live in is so cruel, and so many people suffer so much, that it makes our burnt toast, clinky necks, and stumped toes seem like nothing, because they *are* nothing.DONT SCROLL DOWN IF YOU CRY EASILY.
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Pictures edited out by Zak cos they were too harsh. Sorry.
One was of a boy in an orphanage, god only knows where, starving and the other of a little baby in Somalia, dead, about to be eaten by a vulture.
THOSE ARE REASONS TO GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE.
A clicky neck and a memory are minimal. trust me
The harsh truth man, you need to find a way to get over it and stop letting these small things bother you, because like we've said, there's so much more in life that is worth worrying over, and you have plenty coming your way.
Take pride in being a man, sticking your head up high and not letting anything beat you down. You don't have to beat people to be tough and have pride, you just have to never give up, never surrender, and protect the people who rely on you.
Peace
[edit: I'll also point out that this is part of the reason I'm a vegetarian, I don't want to add any unnecessary suffering to the world by way of my own personal choices...]
Thanks, I'm trying my best but i get lonely sometimes
I have to agree with the growing sentiments here, I can't help but think that there may be terminal cancer patients or the like reading this and wishing they could swap it for a 'clicky' neck.
It clicks, it's annoying, it's not life threatening, it's not preventing you from leading a full and healthy life so stop dwelling on things that have happened and concentrate on things you can make happen from now on.
Nobody is trying to be cruel, but seriously, life is too short to get hung up on things that really don't matter.
If you're lonely then go out and meet people, talk to people... play video games online and make online friends... anything...
Just don't hang out with jerks, don't get caught up in drugs/etc...
And I don't see why your neck is stopping you from doing anything...
how can you say that?
its what i think when it clicks that is awful , worse than you could imagine
Sensing some seriously suppressed emotional problems here, covered up by the neck click.how can you say that?
its what i think when it clicks that is awful , worse than you could imagine
A clicky neck and a memory are minimal. trust meI guess the OP is already aware that there are lots worse things.. but this is about more than a clicky neck, the same way other confidence issues, phobias, etc are about more than the thing itself. If you can't easily get over past problems such as bullying, if they have become a big deal to you, then it's crossed the line into an obsession, & being made to feel bad that you aren't better at coping isn't going to help.
Last edited by sammyc; 08-12-2008 at 10:11 PM.
i just think matey you are suffering from depression which can affect people in many different ways, ive always tried dealing with mine by taking a jokey twist on things, its easy to do u just gotta do a little thinking, my experience with people and depression is that theres always a reason why you cant get better or a negative answer for every proposed cure you gotta relook at those answers your giving yourself and think for a minute logically, 'hey you know what, if i was to do this it would stop me thinking about that' things like that keep yourself busy and talk to a friend, even if its hard to do, the incident with your neck haunts you i understand that but i dont think its the main cause of your unhappiness, people can just get down, no specific reason you can just feel bad and if you choose to dwell on that it can start to eat away at you, life is what you make it my man, seriously theres a whole world out there, as much as your willing to discover, have you considered exercise? maybe a gym membership? im in no way fit but on the rare occasions ive had a good workout ive felt amazing afterwards it can really help to build self eesteem and confidence which in turn attracts the ladiessssss
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