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    Made my wife a ring

    I noticed that Bsodmike likes to show his jewellery, so I thought "wtf. I will show off THE RING".

    So, here's the story. I have treated my wife badly for a few years now; we have moved house to keep on with my job, and she has had to drop friends, pack up and follow. She's an entertaining old bat, so I appreciate her efforts.

    Anyway, I recently decided to move again, to Paris. She went a bit apesh1t, as we haven't even finished the renovation of our new home, so I decided to bribe her.

    I did what I always do with any project, estimated a budget, researched options, researched mechanisms and learned all I could about the subject; diamonds and rings. There's a lot to learn, but learning is my business.

    Eventually, I was able to source an already certified (by GIA) diamond from the cutter in India. My contact at the other end was a genius and he found me a Colour H, Asscher (Like a square emerald cut) that had been mislabelled as a J, and I bought it.

    The quality of a diamond is largely governed by the four 'C's:

    Carats - The weight
    Colour - Generally speaking the closer to colourless the better, though pretty colours are different
    Cut - Without a good cut you may as well wear a bit of gravel
    Clarity - The clearer a diamond the more it flashes and shines

    For those of you who don't know, the proportions of a diamond are very important in it's appearance. Too deep and the light is reflected off sideways; too shallow and the light passes straight through. Mine is a perfect cut for an Asscher. In fact, as diamonds go, mine is close to perfect. Colours come in stages from D to Z, with DEF being colourless and GHI being effectively colourless. There is little detectable difference between any of these colours, however the price difference between an H and a D is immense.

    It's a 2.02 ct Asscher - Big, and a nice popular shape
    Clarity: VS1 - Excellent
    Colour: H with very strong blue fluorescence - Virtually colourless
    Dimensions: 7.23x6.89x4.63 (ratio 1.05) - almost perfect for an Asscher
    Depth: 67% - Perfect for an Asscher
    table: 61% - Perfect for an Asscher
    Cut: Excellent
    Polish :Excellent
    Symmetry :Very Good (Ideal ratio is 1.00, mine is 1.05, so it's half a percent off. Big deal)

    Mine is further improved by having a very strong blue fluorescence, which lightens it by about another grade in almost any light except candlelight. It has excellent cut and polish, which are a big help with a fancy cut as it has big facets that flash rather than glittering like a round brilliant would do.

    I bought a 1940 platinum art deco ring, and had it re-polished. It has four little (0.08 ct), but excellent quality, shoulder diamonds, and had housed an emerald that had been chipped and needed re-cutting.

    I had the stone set in the ring by Tiffany’s, Paris, as they were no more expensive than anyone else, and I think you will agree that the end result is fabulous.





    This shot's a bit crappy, probably because I used my silver pen as a support, but possibly because the indoor light was firing the fluorescence.



    The total cost to me, after VAT and import duties, was approximately 25-30% of what Tiffany's would have charged for the same ring. To be a little crude about it, I expect to spend a lot of time face down on my wife in the next few weeks.

    If any of you decide to get engaged any time soon, it may be worth your while to investigate on-line diamond sales, and save yourself a shedload. The general wisdom is that you should spend a few months salary on an engagement ring. My take is that you could spend 3 weeks salary and get what you could have spent 3 months worth on. It's worth a little effort, I think you'll agree.

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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    Quote Originally Posted by Brucelles View Post
    To be a little crude about it, I expect to spend a lot of time face down on my wife in the next few weeks.
    (To be equally crude) Surely you'd be expecting her to be 'down' on you?
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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    I did similar. Just don't tell her that

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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    It's definitely something I was researching way back when*...

    That is a gorgeous rock Brucelles - the wife really should be appreciative of that! She's a lucky girl.



    *i.e way back when I actually wanted to get married, now I'm really not bothered.

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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    Quote Originally Posted by format View Post
    (To be equally crude) Surely you'd be expecting her to be 'down' on you?
    Either way, I win.

    (Thanks Evilmunky)
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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    /Del Boy moment

    "I know how much you like Solitaires, so I got you a cluster of them"

    /serious note

    Lovely ring.... but she'e earned it I think, following you around Europe

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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    That's pretty impressive ! I used to have friends who worked for deBeers , and always told myself I'd get them to source a stone for me. I get the feeling you are a pretty worldly wise chap , but where you worried about being ripped of ? The diamond industry isn't always known for its scruples.
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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    Quote Originally Posted by Brucelles View Post
    Either way, I win.
    More likely you'll be told that the roof needs repainting/covering in the next few weeks

    It's nice to see you splashing out on some nice jewellery for the other half though.

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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    Quote Originally Posted by Lee @ SCAN View Post
    More likely you'll be told that the roof needs repainting/covering in the next few weeks

    It's nice to see you splashing out on some nice jewellery for the other half though.
    Cobwebs in the corner... shopping that needs to be done... etc.

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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    Quote Originally Posted by Lowe View Post
    I did similar. Just don't tell her that
    In the context of an earlier crude post, might I suggest that if she needed telling your obviously not doing it right...

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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    Quote Originally Posted by tiggerai View Post
    It's definitely something I was researching way back when*...
    For a guy to research diamonds to ensure the quality of his purchase and save a lot of money is one thing.

    For a girl to learn about cut and clarity so that she can assess the quality of a prospective husband just sounds a little... wrong...


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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    I was kind of expecting to see a few pictures of you down in a diamond mine and pouring molten gold into a forge...

    I guess this is just as good .

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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    i'm lucky, i know a diamond broker who runs a shop on one of the most expensive streets in glasgow, he sent me his login to a couple of the merchants he uses, he sent samples down via special delivery and the rest is history

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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    Quote Originally Posted by TeePee View Post
    For a guy to research diamonds to ensure the quality of his purchase and save a lot of money is one thing.

    For a girl to learn about cut and clarity so that she can assess the quality of a prospective husband just sounds a little... wrong...

    this is spot on, since when can women use the internest :|

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    Re: Made my wife a ring

    Quote Originally Posted by TeePee View Post
    For a guy to research diamonds to ensure the quality of his purchase and save a lot of money is one thing.

    For a girl to learn about cut and clarity so that she can assess the quality of a prospective husband just sounds a little... wrong...

    I was going to buy myself a diamond for an investment - AFTER I had called off my engagement. Meaning that there is no judgement on "prospective" husbands. Diamonds are not just for engagements.

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    Thats one damn nice ring.
    If she's followed you though europe shows shes committed.

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