For the girls...

[shiato storm]

therefore bf = gf ...

[Elmo]

they get it from each other tbh, girls are allowed to be scared of spiders, twas well annoying when he refused to go get it out the bed lol

[shiato storm]

time to wear the trousers then...

[TechnoKitty]

Can you imagine living with those two?? It was like a squealing and running away competition when there was a spider
Phils the other way, cos he doesn't mind them he'll let it run amok :/ And me squealing in the corner of the room.

[shiato storm]

quite so. let the spider live its life in peace!

[Galant]

Well this thread took a walk!

So much for significant topics!

[shiato storm]

hehe. well then galant, what do you look for in a man?

[little me]

I like a guy to be protective (but not so much that he won't let me visit male friends), loving, caring, trustworthy, have a great sense of humour and be a good communicator. I like surprises and small gestures which make me feel special.

I believe that there is not a perfect guy in the world, but if I find one then he's mine!!!

[shiato storm]

sorry, I'm taken.
actually no, i'm not sorry at all!

[Honoop]

Ok, been pondering this for a few days now, but here is my response:

Having been through a fair share of ups and downs in life I know that I need a guy I can communicate with and who can communicate with me. Otherwise its just nightmare. It means all the small issues turn into big issues and thats no fun for anyone cos that then means they become arguements.
Same as every other girl in the world, I need to feel special. Small gestures which let me know that Im set apart from the rest of society, be it a bunch of flowers, a touching text message, a phone call anything - so long as it says that IM special and that he is thinking about me - then Im happy.
I dont think that Im a terribly demanding person and in the past I have changed to fit the person Ive been with - something I will not be doing in the future I can tell you. Its all about give and take - but I deffo wont be the one doing all the giving in the future. Ive made some big life changing decisions in the past and let me tell you that being 26 and getting divorced isnt fun - but its wised me up and Id like to think Im a better person for it.
Apart from this I need someone who is fairly laid back, with a zest for life, a fantastic sense of humour and who knows how to have fun. (Preferably good looking and good in other ways too )

Anyway - guess that was a long way of saying that its the small things that count!!

(Sorry for waffling - this is alcohol induced!!)

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