Well sorry for this long thread and if i go off the plot a bit but there is certain things i need to get off my chest that i can't just come out with only write down. Earlier on today my so called dad turned myself and the rest of my family's life upside down..
Here is where the story begins.. My mum and dad have been together for around 25+ years and they have my self who is 20, my little sister who is 4 going on 5 and my older brother who is 32 but from a past relationship on my mum’s side. Anyway my mum has recently shared concern with me about my dad as he is one of them men that go out a lot and tend to go pub most nights. This has been the case for as long as i remember so thought nothing off it. But my mum has been noticing changes so my mum decides to confront him last night. Before that me and my fiancé ,daughter and brother and his family all went out for a meal with my mum and little sister after the meal we said goodbye and said we would talk later.. I ring my mum around 10 o'clock and my so called dad answers.. He sounded funny so thought something was wrong. I asked "where is mum" he replied “she is on her way round to yours" at this point i thought why is she... he then gave me the news the lying pr**k has been having an affair with the women across the road from my parents. Who is not only my mum’s friend, my friend and the whole family hairdresser but also her daughter is my sisters best friend.
I froze when he told me and i hung up and my mum burst threw the door and collapsed in tears. I can/could not believe he has done this to her after 25+ years. I want to go round and smash his head threw a brick wall but because of my little sister i won't. My mum is the nicest person that is on this earth and would help anyone anytime without i thought for her self. To top this all off though its my sisters 5th birthday next week and Christmas round the corner and all this has to be told to her tomorrow she loves my so called dad and this will break her heart. I am going to move in with my mum for a couple of weeks as she is distort at the moment and so am i and the rest of the family.. Only 3 weeks ago both my dad and the mistress/bitch both attended my daughter christening now he has lost all right to see me or his grand daughter grow up.
One of my main concerns is that my dad is going to be sneaky on this and sell his assets. You see is quite well off and has a mortgage business and is making around 80k+ a year but most of it is either in properties, business or paying things off like his brand new BMW 6 series which he prob just bought to impress the daft bi**ch across the road. Anyway has anyone gone threw this and know the best proceeding to go threw? We will be seeing a lawyer tom anyway but anyone got any advice..
Cheers
Adam