A one which is internationally verified by observers,where ballots are sealed,etc and people can vote in total confidence. If you read some of the stuff in Spain,people admitted they voted more than once at ballot boxes. People who said they wanted to vote for staying in the country have said they stayed away. You don't believe me - read some of the news coming out from Spain.
You sound exactly like the Scottish nationalists,who were so sure they didn't need a vote to leave the UK,but in the end when the vote happened,the jingoism wasn't as nearly big as expected.
You seem utterly worried,at my suggestion that such a normal vote be done,and that we should take a disputed voted made by 38.7% of the population and with nearly 50% of their own DEMOCRATICALLY elected parliament abstaining from voting too.
The fact you don't seem to understand why voting needs to be policed properly is very worrying indeed,especially when in many countries such votes are mocked in the US and UK when certain parties get abnormally high votes in elections.
Its another case of one set of logic for one situation and one set of logic for another.
For a person who shouts democracy all the time,its surprising that you don't seem to support transparency in the voting process.
Simply thinking "I
CBA waiting" - not a good enough excuse in life.