I am happy to concede that I hadn't considered this fair point."Hard" Brexiters are no more a valid judge arbiter of whether the term causes offence as whether the Corbyn camp are of whether "Blairite" is meant offensively or not.rubbish
I believe that this is something we can all agree on.2) Whether offence is given by a given word or phrase, or not, is a complex matter depending, at a minimum, on the intent of the person using it and the intent perceived by the person on the receiving end, and these may not be the same. Offence can be taken when none was intended, or missed when it was intended.
On this basis though, even the most neutral, unloaded term can be used with the intent to offend and / or with negative connotations.
In my opinion, this would render any discussion as to whether a word is offensive pointless (in a way it probably is, but at least it is less heavy than the meat of the brexit debacle at a time when many are probably suffering from discussion fatigue).
Hence I believe that for a word to be *deemed* offensive, it needs to have a fairly wide acceptance of such. And while the word "moaner" in remoaner has an a pretty universally negative connotations, the "brexit" in Brexiter is only negative for *a* part of the population who are anti-brexit.
Those who intend to offend would likely attach something more explicit than assume that "Brexit" is sufficiently offensive that appending a -er would get the point across.
I get the point that "Brexiter" get associated with all sort of things that may be offensive, but so do "Remainers" so I do not think that argument work.
And here is how I see it. In our highly unscientific poll with an equally unscientifically small sample, *one* person out of seven Leaver view the term as offensive. I would wager (if I didn't think that people might purposely vote otherwise just to contradict my statement here) that the term "remoaner" would end up with a significantly result, if only going by the comments of that thread.
I am fine indulging those who prefer the term Leaver. But as I view the two as interchangeable (and neutral) it doesn't really affect the underlying intent of what I am saying in the context that it is being said (I would append something more descriptive and universally negative if the intent to offend). I challenge anyone who use "remoaner" to claim the same.