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    lol, some serious suggestions if possible guys. Although you guys do make me laugh, I want to give it a real good shot

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    Quote Originally Posted by XA04
    lol, some serious suggestions if possible guys. Although you guys do make me laugh, I want to give it a real good shot
    I bet you do


    No.. Seriously... Just don't think about it too much. Take things naturally. Stay relaxed.


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    I think cinema and pizza after sounds good or Bowling maybe?

    And if you be yourself you won't go far wrong, just remember that she's probably just as nervous as you

    Good luck, i hope it all works out for you

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    "Hi, Im Paul"
    Normally works for me...I say works...its what i normally use.

    Just go for it. Who cares if she says no? Nothing to lose.

    Get a taxi to collect her from her house then and come to your house, you jump in and go to cinema. If you have money for it.

    Otherwise stop being lazy and do something about it before someone else gets in there first
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    Quote Originally Posted by shelley bda
    I think cinema and pizza after sounds good or Bowling maybe?

    And if you be yourself you won't go far wrong, just remember that she's probably just as nervous as you

    Good luck, i hope it all works out for you
    Yeah, bowling is a possibility, theres a few places VERY VERY close to the cinema (the cinema is on the beach, so there is amusements and all the rest too).

    Quote Originally Posted by Twigman
    "Hi, Im Paul"
    Normally works for me...I say works...its what i normally use.

    Just go for it. Who cares if she says no? Nothing to lose.

    Get a taxi to collect her from her house then and come to your house, you jump in and go to cinema. If you have money for it.

    Otherwise stop being lazy and do something about it before someone else gets in there first
    Yeah, true, nothing to lose . Yeah I've got to stop been lazy and just go for it.





    Well I'm off guys, cya tonight, wish me luck!

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    since pyle never turned up:

    pics?

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    i want to hear how this got on, i didnt get to chip in my wisdom

    bowling is good, i took an Ex bowling once great fun

    id offer to walk her home, but 4-5 miles isnt in everyones range

    screw "hi"!! thats for lame 14 year olds, real men say "hey", or even better, i say "how it going", or if im a bit pissed "hows it going for you" works great, cliche is dull, no-one likes getting the same treatment as theyve had before, that just makes you tame in comparison, you have to raise the bar, look in her eyes and smile as you say it, DONT! look at the floor, or all around you, thats just lame, look at her when your talking, its way more geniune, make a joke, laugh, have fun, just dont try to overthink it, its meant to be natural, not clinically precision staged.


    Hungover!

    p.s. Vive La clubs open to 3am!!!! wooowoo
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    Hope it went well

    Quote Originally Posted by herulack
    since pyle never turned up:

    pics?
    Someone was bound to say it TTIUWP

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    Quote Originally Posted by herulach
    Remember to get her number the morning after you stay at her house after pulling in a club (seriosuly, did this with my current gf, was on my way out the door and she had to remind me, doh)
    I think running a WHOIS search on the girl is a much craftier way to find out her details!

    Good luck, XA04.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Twigman

    Just go for it. Who cares if she says no? Nothing to lose.
    I think thats it in a nutshell. A lot of our stress and worry is based on rejection-anxiety. But when you think about it - what are you worried about? That she might say no? Whats to lose? Even if she sais no, she will probably be flattered that you asked.

    Another thing - girls like to see guys a bit anxious about this kind of thing - makes you seem more vulnerable and "cute", so don't try and be too confident!

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    Thanks for the more advice guys.


    Right.. just got back, 1 piece of bad news (not all bad though), and 3 pieces of good news.

    Bad;
    She wasn't where she usually is today.. which sucks, because I was all ready too!

    Good;
    I asked her mate after school where she is at lunch.. and she said that she will be where I thought she would be today, but she will be there tomorrow too.. just at an earlier time.

    Her friend was begging me why I asked , and you know what girls are like, so she will probably tell her that I asked.. so that might be a bit of a boost, I don't know, sounds good anyway.

    Erm... I forgot the 3rd >_<.



    Anyway, I got more time to think up tomorrow now.








    Quote Originally Posted by Mutley
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    Another thing - girls like to see guys a bit anxious about this kind of thing - makes you seem more vulnerable and "cute", so don't try and be too confident!
    I think her friend caught onto that when I asked where she would be, she could tell I was really shy when I wouldn't tell her why, I 'sort of' let her know though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by XA04
    Thanks for the more advice guys.


    Right.. just got back, 1 piece of bad news (not all bad though), and 3 pieces of good news.

    Bad;
    She wasn't where she usually is today.. which sucks, because I was all ready too!

    Good;
    I asked her mate after school where she is at lunch.. and she said that she will be where I thought she would be today, but she will be there tomorrow too.. just at an earlier time.

    Her friend was begging me why I asked , and you know what girls are like, so she will probably tell her that I asked.. so that might be a bit of a boost, I don't know, sounds good anyway.

    Erm... I forgot the 3rd >_<.



    Anyway, I got more time to think up tomorrow now.









    I think her friend caught onto that when I asked where she would be, she could tell I was really shy when I wouldn't tell her why, I 'sort of' let her know though.

    i smell stalking
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    Quote Originally Posted by mr_anderson187
    i smell stalking
    Shut up......... so what if I am


    Heheh, nah, I wouldn't stalk, if she ever caught me I would of lost my chance probably, and it's not like me to stalk people.

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    Well, a court-order would certainly put a dent in your chances with her...

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    lol, you guys make my sides hurt.



    Anyway, pics? , I don't even have any yet.... and when (yes when ) I do take them, I'd have to ask her first..

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    If she has any sense, she will run away screaming. That is, if you tell her where you are going to post the picture, and what kind of people are on this forum....!

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