It sounds like your modem is in sync at 6.5Mb but not connected to AOL. Unless somethings changed in the last month, you'll need a Network ID and Network Password (other ISP's call it the ADSL Username/Password).
You should be able to log into the router, enter these details and connect to the network.
FYI Since Carphone Warehouse bought AOL UK, they have moved the vast majority of AOL customers over to their own network which is much cheaper for them to run. 'Generally' if your on this network (check speedtest.net and do a speedtest, your ISP will be in the result) then the speeds/latency tend to be fine.