Sorry but i dont agree with any of those comments.
a). If you buy matched units then instability isnt an issue. To have dual channel they only have to be matched pairs. Memory DOES NOT have to be identical to run Dual Channel either. Although it helps its not a forgone conclusion.
b). You wouldnt get instability either. Dual channel may not enable thats all.
c). There is no fact at all in the statement that the OC is better with 2x1gb rather than 4x512mb. If the motherboard is decent then the very small extra load has no effect at all.
d). Longevity of mobo depending on the less on the Northbridge is also incorrect. As said above, the tiny bit extra on a decent mobo will not even be noticeable.
The ONLY place there may be a small problem is if you have a poor PSU. The extra load from 2 extra DIMMS may have an OC effect.
If you have a half-way decent PSU though, this will have no adverse effect either.
I see you are a Corsair techie and maybe your memory although decent enough is a 'bit touchy' sometimes shall we say so maybe you were just talking from a Corsair point of view.
I use Crucial Ballistix and its extremely fast and not as fussy.
Try the Crucial test to see what kind of memory is required:
http://www.crucial.com/uk/?gclid=CNe...FQKIEQodsC_Cig