'So, would you like to make love to me, or should I make love to you?'
Genius.
'So, would you like to make love to me, or should I make love to you?'
Genius.
Fantastic read! Now to try itOriginally Posted by TeePee
Heres a little reading matter for you. I'm a little cautious posting this, because I certainly don't identify with the author, but it is an interesting perspective, and there are certainly some truths contained:
Caution for severely unsafe for work content!
ladderwiki.com/wiki/Are_You_Beta
*note: Can't post url, need more postage.
Does that mean you just made the 1st move?
As has been said, it's the whole confidence thing. I've never been any good with women... ever, just uncomfortable silences mostly, and thus, had never actually asked anyone out. Luckily, most of the women i have liked happen to be the confident type, and thus have made all the moves, untill my current girlfriend.
She was more nervous than me, so i just bit the bullet and changed, i think the actual question i asked her was 'You free on thursday?' turned out she wasn't, to which my reply was 'Fantastic, fancy coming bowling with me?' top job!
*insert something whitty here*
lol - I'll admit it but over last year and the start of this year my confidence was at an all time low.
Not only that, but I had the "what if" demons in my head constantly critising every move I made so it got to the point where I just gave up completely. Maybe it was because the last few instances of romance were to put it blunty extremely crap and I got treated like a piece of poo in the end.
However, I soon dragged my arse out of that frame of mind and carried on as normal with my antics. I just speak to women as if I was chatting to my friends and it works 8 times out of 10
I don't think I have ever asked a girl out, since i was about 16 or 17 or so, and I can't really remember if anyone said yes or not heh.
Things just kinda happen, and you just have to make sure you are there when they do
Update (also sorry for the bump ):
The girl who this post was originally about thought I was too young so that never took off.
But I went out to a nightclub the other night and got to know another girl. We kissed and I got her phone number. I texted her asking if she wanted to meet up. She said that she is not looking for a relationship at the moment. But also said that she had fun and said that I'm a really nice guy.
Could it be that she has just got out of a bad relationship and needs time to think?
Last edited by DataMatrix; 22-10-2007 at 01:49 PM.
Tbh chap if you meet up with someone on a night out and end up with your tongue in her gob on the first meet then shes not the kinda girl your likely to want to introduce the parents too.
If you go out and hook up with someone fine, but dont expet it to go any further than that and dont get pissed at seeing her next week or even later that night in some girls cases with another blokes tongue in her gob...
I think you're in there Leon...
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