Page 4 of 24 FirstFirst 123456714 ... LastLast
Results 49 to 64 of 380

Thread: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

  1. #49
    Banned
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    Carlisle
    Posts
    4,121
    Thanks
    504
    Thanked
    368 times in 278 posts
    • matty-hodgson's system
      • Motherboard:
      • Abit IP35 Dark Raider
      • CPU:
      • Q6600 @ 4GHz (59'C Under a TRUE Black)
      • Memory:
      • 4GB OCZ DDR2 890MHz (5-4-4-15)
      • Storage:
      • Intel 80GB - Games. Intel 80GB - OS. 1TB Samsung - Storage.
      • Graphics card(s):
      • NVIDIA Zotac GTX 275: 728 Core, 1614 Shader, 1340 Memory
      • PSU:
      • Enermax MODU82+ 625w
      • Case:
      • Antec 300
      • Operating System:
      • Windows 7 x64
      • Monitor(s):
      • Samsung SM2343BW (2048x1152)
      • Internet:
      • Smallworld 4Mbps

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheAnimus View Post
    as people have said, 16 is too young to know true betyrail. Give it time you will learn how to realy **** things up!

    It's worth saying that you never stop loving someone really, only on a balance of things you start too hate them more.
    yeah, i kinda think the same.. but it's awful all the same when you lose someone you believe to actually 'love'

    Quote Originally Posted by TheAnimus View Post
    Also, that you a snog is mearly just a friendly happy handshake.
    i may use that phrase sometime

  2. #50
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Posts
    10,351
    Thanks
    600
    Thanked
    294 times in 204 posts

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Put it down to experiance and get on with your life, live n learn.
    She might even if your lucky say she forgives you but she sure as hell will never forget and can/will use it as an excuse to get you to jump thru hoops, drop you at a minutes notice, use it as an excuse for her to do stuff, use it as an excuse in the future to just dump you with no notice

  3. #51
    Banned
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    Carlisle
    Posts
    4,121
    Thanks
    504
    Thanked
    368 times in 278 posts
    • matty-hodgson's system
      • Motherboard:
      • Abit IP35 Dark Raider
      • CPU:
      • Q6600 @ 4GHz (59'C Under a TRUE Black)
      • Memory:
      • 4GB OCZ DDR2 890MHz (5-4-4-15)
      • Storage:
      • Intel 80GB - Games. Intel 80GB - OS. 1TB Samsung - Storage.
      • Graphics card(s):
      • NVIDIA Zotac GTX 275: 728 Core, 1614 Shader, 1340 Memory
      • PSU:
      • Enermax MODU82+ 625w
      • Case:
      • Antec 300
      • Operating System:
      • Windows 7 x64
      • Monitor(s):
      • Samsung SM2343BW (2048x1152)
      • Internet:
      • Smallworld 4Mbps

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    i can't believe how many people have wrote back on here, in such a short period of time.. i appreciate it a lot guys!

    has anybody been in this situation before?
    what did you do?
    i'm thinking of the 'box of chocolates and a huge sorry' route atm.
    dunno if that'd work or not though.

  4. #52
    Banned
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    Carlisle
    Posts
    4,121
    Thanks
    504
    Thanked
    368 times in 278 posts
    • matty-hodgson's system
      • Motherboard:
      • Abit IP35 Dark Raider
      • CPU:
      • Q6600 @ 4GHz (59'C Under a TRUE Black)
      • Memory:
      • 4GB OCZ DDR2 890MHz (5-4-4-15)
      • Storage:
      • Intel 80GB - Games. Intel 80GB - OS. 1TB Samsung - Storage.
      • Graphics card(s):
      • NVIDIA Zotac GTX 275: 728 Core, 1614 Shader, 1340 Memory
      • PSU:
      • Enermax MODU82+ 625w
      • Case:
      • Antec 300
      • Operating System:
      • Windows 7 x64
      • Monitor(s):
      • Samsung SM2343BW (2048x1152)
      • Internet:
      • Smallworld 4Mbps

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by [GSV]Trig View Post
    Put it down to experiance and get on with your life, live n learn.
    She might even if your lucky say she forgives you but she sure as hell will never forget and can/will use it as an excuse to get you to jump thru hoops, drop you at a minutes notice, use it as an excuse for her to do stuff, use it as an excuse in the future to just dump you with no notice
    yeah, totally agree, i'll most likely be taken for a ride from here on if we get back together, but i think she's worth it!
    obviously there's only so much of it i'll take though.

  5. #53
    Seething Cauldron of Hatred TheAnimus's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2005
    Posts
    17,147
    Thanks
    798
    Thanked
    2,151 times in 1,407 posts

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by Agent View Post
    Just don't get saying 'hi' to me at a HEXUS meet again
    less tounge you think?

    seriously why do people get hept up about the little things.

    fundementally i've been having really great 'monkey level' intercourse, whilst been very emotioinally connected to someone else. Whilst there was honesty from the outset, it wasn't the sex that caused grief, but the jelousy over the emotional reletionship. I think people put too much emphasis on meaninless physical interaction, rather than the mind.
    throw new ArgumentException (String, String, Exception)

  6. Received thanks from:

    Agent (14-03-2008)

  7. #54
    HEXUS.social member Agent's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Location
    Internet
    Posts
    19,158
    Thanks
    732
    Thanked
    1,604 times in 1,043 posts

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Its just a warm up for the pain that's to come later on in life with relationships mate

    It's a bit like that Egg advert really...the cleaver / dumb balance one
    Quote Originally Posted by Saracen View Post
    And by trying to force me to like small pants, they've alienated me.

  8. #55
    Banned
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    Carlisle
    Posts
    4,121
    Thanks
    504
    Thanked
    368 times in 278 posts
    • matty-hodgson's system
      • Motherboard:
      • Abit IP35 Dark Raider
      • CPU:
      • Q6600 @ 4GHz (59'C Under a TRUE Black)
      • Memory:
      • 4GB OCZ DDR2 890MHz (5-4-4-15)
      • Storage:
      • Intel 80GB - Games. Intel 80GB - OS. 1TB Samsung - Storage.
      • Graphics card(s):
      • NVIDIA Zotac GTX 275: 728 Core, 1614 Shader, 1340 Memory
      • PSU:
      • Enermax MODU82+ 625w
      • Case:
      • Antec 300
      • Operating System:
      • Windows 7 x64
      • Monitor(s):
      • Samsung SM2343BW (2048x1152)
      • Internet:
      • Smallworld 4Mbps

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheAnimus View Post
    less tounge you think?

    seriously why do people get hept up about the little things.

    fundementally i've been having really great 'monkey level' intercourse, whilst been very emotioinally connected to someone else. Whilst there was honesty from the outset, it wasn't the sex that caused grief, but the jelousy over the emotional reletionship. I think people put too much emphasis on meaninless physical interaction, rather than the mind.
    i haven't a clue what you just said there!

  9. #56
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Posts
    10,351
    Thanks
    600
    Thanked
    294 times in 204 posts

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Yes.
    To create the situation or to remedy it?
    Chocs and flowers work if u wanna get laid on valentines day, if you've dropped a bollock then that wont cut it
    No it wont work, save yourself the humiliation and move on. Give her the chiocs n flowers, say sorry, say you understand that things are over, best case you'll see her in a few years time and at least be on speaking terms instead of saying hi to her, asking if shes going to say hi back, she looks you up n down, says no, n walks off...
    Theorhetically speaking of course...

  10. #57
    Banned
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    Carlisle
    Posts
    4,121
    Thanks
    504
    Thanked
    368 times in 278 posts
    • matty-hodgson's system
      • Motherboard:
      • Abit IP35 Dark Raider
      • CPU:
      • Q6600 @ 4GHz (59'C Under a TRUE Black)
      • Memory:
      • 4GB OCZ DDR2 890MHz (5-4-4-15)
      • Storage:
      • Intel 80GB - Games. Intel 80GB - OS. 1TB Samsung - Storage.
      • Graphics card(s):
      • NVIDIA Zotac GTX 275: 728 Core, 1614 Shader, 1340 Memory
      • PSU:
      • Enermax MODU82+ 625w
      • Case:
      • Antec 300
      • Operating System:
      • Windows 7 x64
      • Monitor(s):
      • Samsung SM2343BW (2048x1152)
      • Internet:
      • Smallworld 4Mbps

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by Agent View Post
    Its just a warm up for the pain that's to come later on in life with relationships mate

    It's a bit like that Egg advert really...the cleaver / dumb balance one
    i know i'll probably get much worse when i'm older. and much more mature.

  11. #58
    finding nemo staffsMike's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Posts
    11,498
    Thanks
    197
    Thanked
    794 times in 741 posts
    • staffsMike's system
      • Motherboard:
      • evga 680i
      • CPU:
      • e6600
      • Memory:
      • geil ultra pc6400
      • Storage:
      • WD 320gb
      • Graphics card(s):
      • leadtek 8800 GTS 640mb
      • PSU:
      • ocz gameXstream 700w
      • Case:
      • akasa eclipse
      • Monitor(s):
      • dell 2007wfp and Lg L194WT
      • Internet:
      • pipex homecall

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by matty-hodgson View Post
    i can't believe how many people have wrote back on here, in such a short period of time.. i appreciate it a lot guys!

    has anybody been in this situation before?
    what did you do?
    i'm thinking of the 'box of chocolates and a huge sorry' route atm.
    dunno if that'd work or not though.
    I've kinda been there.

    I'm not going into the story but annoyingly we spent a very large amount of time apart because she thought I was humping around blah blah.

    Wasn't!!

    Anyway, She of course is my one (although probably be the death of me ) So, I just used good old fashioned blunt persistance. Put all the effort you can fathomably put into annoying her Sing songs outside her window, hand delivery flowers everyday, do every single possible thing you can possibly think to bug the living **** out of her

    And then when you get her back, make her apologise for being such hard work!

  12. #59
    HEXUS.social member Agent's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Location
    Internet
    Posts
    19,158
    Thanks
    732
    Thanked
    1,604 times in 1,043 posts

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by matty-hodgson View Post
    has anybody been in this situation before?
    *EVERYBODY* has mate

    As for what to do: You need to figure out what best shows that you're sorry. Sure I could tell you what I'd do, but we would probably be totally different in that respect. She likes you, not any of us
    Quote Originally Posted by Saracen View Post
    And by trying to force me to like small pants, they've alienated me.

  13. #60
    Registered User
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Location
    Cornwall/Weston-Super-Mare
    Posts
    5,337
    Thanks
    438
    Thanked
    309 times in 262 posts
    • Behemoth's system
      • Motherboard:
      • Gigabyte mATX
      • CPU:
      • Phenom 2 X2 555 BE
      • Memory:
      • 8 Gig DDR3 Corsair XMS 3 1600 MHz
      • Storage:
      • 4 TB's Storage
      • Graphics card(s):
      • Gigabyte GTX 460 OC2
      • PSU:
      • OCZ StealthStream 2 600 Watt
      • Case:
      • Silverstone TJ08-E
      • Operating System:
      • Windows 7 64 Bit
      • Monitor(s):
      • HP x23LED
      • Internet:
      • BT Broadband

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by Agent View Post
    *EVERYBODY* has mate

    As for what to do: You need to figure out what best shows that you're sorry. Sure I could tell you what I'd do, but we would probably be totally different in that respect. She likes you, not any of us
    Can I just say that I haven't been in this situation. Now I'm not sure if this makes me weird, or just unique. Perhaps I'm just too honest for my own good sometimes.

  14. #61
    HEXUS.social member Agent's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Location
    Internet
    Posts
    19,158
    Thanks
    732
    Thanked
    1,604 times in 1,043 posts

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheAnimus View Post
    less tounge you think?

    seriously why do people get hept up about the little things.

    fundementally i've been having really great 'monkey level' intercourse, whilst been very emotioinally connected to someone else. Whilst there was honesty from the outset, it wasn't the sex that caused grief, but the jelousy over the emotional reletionship. I think people put too much emphasis on meaninless physical interaction, rather than the mind.
    Ohhh that had me laughing
    Quote Originally Posted by Saracen View Post
    And by trying to force me to like small pants, they've alienated me.

  15. #62
    Banned
    Join Date
    Feb 2008
    Location
    Carlisle
    Posts
    4,121
    Thanks
    504
    Thanked
    368 times in 278 posts
    • matty-hodgson's system
      • Motherboard:
      • Abit IP35 Dark Raider
      • CPU:
      • Q6600 @ 4GHz (59'C Under a TRUE Black)
      • Memory:
      • 4GB OCZ DDR2 890MHz (5-4-4-15)
      • Storage:
      • Intel 80GB - Games. Intel 80GB - OS. 1TB Samsung - Storage.
      • Graphics card(s):
      • NVIDIA Zotac GTX 275: 728 Core, 1614 Shader, 1340 Memory
      • PSU:
      • Enermax MODU82+ 625w
      • Case:
      • Antec 300
      • Operating System:
      • Windows 7 x64
      • Monitor(s):
      • Samsung SM2343BW (2048x1152)
      • Internet:
      • Smallworld 4Mbps

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by staffsMike View Post
    I've kinda been there.

    I'm not going into the story but annoyingly we spent a very large amount of time apart because she thought I was humping around blah blah.

    Wasn't!!

    Anyway, She of course is my one (although probably be the death of me ) So, I just used good old fashioned blunt persistance. Put all the effort you can fathomably put into annoying her Sing songs outside her window, hand delivery flowers everyday, do every single possible thing you can possibly think to bug the living **** out of her

    And then when you get her back, make her apologise for being such hard work!
    if it gets to that, i might just go for it..
    but for now, that's a bit OTT.
    it's like that you see on movies and stuff

  16. #63
    SiM
    SiM is offline
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    Location
    London
    Posts
    7,787
    Thanks
    300
    Thanked
    633 times in 422 posts
    • SiM's system
      • Motherboard:
      • P5K Premium
      • CPU:
      • Q6600
      • Memory:
      • 8GB PC2-6400 OCZ ReaperX + Platinum
      • Storage:
      • 3 x 320gb HD322HJ single platter in Raid 0
      • Graphics card(s):
      • PNY GTX285
      • PSU:
      • Corsair TX650W
      • Case:
      • Antec 1200
      • Monitor(s):
      • 2407-HC

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by staffsMike View Post
    bug the living **** out of her
    eewwwww I first mis-read that as "**** the living bug out of her"

    I think you should not let her know exactly how you really feel... Tell her that she is your number 1... but you will happily live with your number 2 choice (her mate), then tell her she has until sunset to tell you if she wants to get back with you before you make passionate love with her mate...
    Give her a deadline and let her decide... if she doesn't choose you then, head over to the booty thread to cheer yourself up... there are plenty of other fish in the sea

  17. #64
    finding nemo staffsMike's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Posts
    11,498
    Thanks
    197
    Thanked
    794 times in 741 posts
    • staffsMike's system
      • Motherboard:
      • evga 680i
      • CPU:
      • e6600
      • Memory:
      • geil ultra pc6400
      • Storage:
      • WD 320gb
      • Graphics card(s):
      • leadtek 8800 GTS 640mb
      • PSU:
      • ocz gameXstream 700w
      • Case:
      • akasa eclipse
      • Monitor(s):
      • dell 2007wfp and Lg L194WT
      • Internet:
      • pipex homecall

    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    In fairness I didn't do any of that I just waited it out until she realised she was wrong and then demanded an apology but I doubt that is going to work for you

    I have watered down versions of the above though..mainly for kicks.. I like annoying her

Page 4 of 24 FirstFirst 123456714 ... LastLast

Thread Information

Users Browsing this Thread

There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)

Similar Threads

  1. How do i get my trust to work?
    By Chopper in forum General Discussion
    Replies: 1
    Last Post: 05-12-2007, 09:28 AM
  2. Hexus trust email - re classifieds
    By mr mister in forum General Discussion
    Replies: 20
    Last Post: 12-11-2007, 08:10 PM
  3. Hexus Trust - image to profile not working?
    By Parm in forum HEXUS Suggestions
    Replies: 22
    Last Post: 14-04-2007, 08:57 AM
  4. Confused over leaving Trust review for Scan...
    By JimNastics in forum SCAN.care@HEXUS
    Replies: 0
    Last Post: 02-11-2005, 01:54 PM
  5. Replies: 23
    Last Post: 08-08-2005, 11:05 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •