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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    you don't need an internet forum mate , you need a ****ing miracle
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Tbh, never been in that situation and without knowing more, like what you lied about (obviously if its personal dont share)

    But i guess all you can do is try talking to her and make her see how much you love her.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    you gotta give it time, u gotta talk it out, and don't give up.

    hope it works out.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    flowers , box of chocolates and a card get them delivered, then give here a ring the next day

    that is unless your boinking your ex's best m8 or something like that then your going to have to do some serious grovelling

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    Quote Originally Posted by Disturbedguy View Post
    Tbh, never been in that situation and without knowing more, like what you lied about (obviously if its personal dont share)

    But i guess all you can do is try talking to her and make her see how much you love her.
    yeah, it's very personal.. but i feel soo bad!
    she cant've stopped loving me, well at least i don't think she could've.
    i just hope there's still something there that she'll realise she's missing and want to take me back.

    ever since day 1 (in the Brickyard ) i've thought "she's the 1.. she's the ****ing 1!!!'
    and i seriously don't wanna lose her!

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Bird seed.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    In all fairness you could have lied about who ate the last tin of corned beef. Or about sleeping with her sis!

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    flowers , box of chocolates and a card get them delivered, then give here a ring the next day

    that is unless your boinking your ex's best m8 or something like that then your going to have to do some serious grovelling
    well.. i kinda got off with her mate, and then i STUPIDLY tried to deny it when she asked me!
    i really can't believe i tried to deny it!

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    In all fairness you could have lied about who ate the last tin of corned beef. Or about sleeping with her sis!
    cheers pal, made me laugh for the first time all night.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    yeah.. the denying is the problem not the getting off with mate

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    yeah.. the denying is the problem not the getting off with mate

    fish, sea and all that
    yeah, she's told me that she's not that bothered about me getting off with her mate, she's a billion times more bothered by me lying.. really dunno why i done it! :S

    are you suggesting i find someone else? :S
    that's the last thing i'm thinking atm.. especially if there's any chance i can get back with her. she means the world to me!

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    is her mate nice?
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    The thing with trust is that once it's been broken it is very hard for it to return so to speak. If she doesn't trust you, no matter what you say or do is going to make one IOTA of a difference at the end of the day.

    It's like when my ex pointed a knife at me in anger the first time, I walked out on her, but came back deciding that I owed it myself to give the relationship another go, I started to trust her again, and about a month later she did the same thing again. I was going to go back into that for a third time, so walked out on her and left her to it and that was the last time I saw her.

    Ok I know a totally different situation, but you kinda get my drift. I really do hope the op gets the outcome he wants, but like I say once the trust has gone there is no basis for a relationship.

    Once bitten, twice shy and all that.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Go down to pub, get mashed.

    With you suffering from a mega hangover (and having a good time getting to that state), should give ample time for your ex to calm down and then let the grovelling begin.

    Or just tell her you're gay and see if she tries to "convert" you.

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