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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Exact thing happened to me aswell but she was just a mate...yet it still took 6 months for her to trust me again.

    Keep trying!

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by sleepyhead View Post
    Go down to pub, get mashed.

    With you suffering from a mega hangover (and having a good time getting to that state), should give ample time for your ex to calm down and then let the grovelling begin.

    Or just tell her you're gay and see if she tries to "convert" you.
    Seriously, thats just going to fail.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by MadduckUK View Post
    is her mate nice?
    yeah, she's a very nice person.. we get on very well.. but obviously, too well.
    my only excuse is i was drunk

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by matty-hodgson View Post
    yeah, she's a very nice person.. we get on very well.. but obviously, too well.
    my only excuse is i was drunk
    How old are you ??

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    not the best of excuses , make a clean break of it wipe 'yourself' on her teddy bear and move out
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by Moby-Dick View Post
    not the best of excuses , make a clean break of it wipe 'yourself' on her teddy bear and move out
    Best advice here to be honest

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by Behemoth View Post
    How old are you ??
    i'm 16..
    very naive and young, i know..
    but she's well.. AWESOME!

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    16 is too young to have "the one" seriously.

    You got too much growing up to do yet.

    You'll never get her trust back... once it's gone, it's gone.

    And come on, if she's the "one" why did you get off with her best mate? Drunk or not, If someone is the one, you don't even LOOK at someone else. (unfortunately, in my experience, they do... stuff happens)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Moby-Dick View Post
    not the best of excuses , make a clean break of it wipe 'yourself' on her teddy bear and move out
    i know my excuse isn't good.. but she's not too bothered about that, she's done the same before, but not with me, and she knows how easy it is..
    just if i thought before i said "no i never, who the hell said that?!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by matty-hodgson View Post
    i'm 16..
    very naive and young, i know..
    but she's well.. AWESOME!
    I thought so. Your posts didn't come across as someone who was very mature. At your age mate it's best to just move on and not dwell on it. You might be okd enough to do the deed, but not mentally at 16 not old enough to deal with the consequnces of your actions. There was no offence meant in this reply.

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    16 is too young to have "the one" seriously.

    You got too much growing up to do yet.

    You'll never get her trust back... once it's gone, it's gone.

    And come on, if she's the "one" why did you get off with her best mate? Drunk or not, If someone is the one, you don't even LOOK at someone else. (unfortunately, in my experience, they do... stuff happens)
    Hit nail on head.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    oh blimey - you only snogged someone ?

    had gone 'round the world' with her gran then , perhaps you should be feeling bad about yourself. In the grand scheme of things , a snog is a mere splash on the headboard of life.

    If she's going to go off the rails at that , imagine how bad it'll be when she finds out anything important !

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    Quote Originally Posted by tiggerai View Post
    16 is too young to have "the one" seriously.

    You got too much growing up to do yet.

    You'll never get her trust back... once it's gone, it's gone.

    And come on, if she's the "one" why did you get off with her best mate? If someone is the one, you don't even LOOK at someone else. (unfortunately, in my experience, they do... stuff happens)
    yeah, i know.. i'm only 16, but honestly! i think i'm 1 of these young people who have actually found 'the one'
    we've been together 9 months.
    and not broke up until now.
    we hardly ever argued.
    it was perfect!

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    oh blimey - you only snogged someone ?

    had gone 'round the world' with her gran then , perhaps you should be feeling bad about yourself. In the grand scheme of things , a snog is a mere splash on the headboard of life.

    If she's going to go off the rails at that , imagine how bad it'll be when she finds out anything important !

    Either she gets over it or you get rid.
    no, it's the fact i lied to her.. when i tried to deny it!

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    perfect doesn't exist


    if it did , you'd have not got drunk and played tonsil hockey with someone else.

    lets take an extreeme example - That bird from girls alouds fellah - you'd think he had it pretty good ? but no he played away from home.
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by matty-hodgson View Post
    yeah, i know.. i'm only 16, but honestly! i think i'm 1 of these young people who have actually found 'the one'
    we've been together 9 months.
    and not broke up until now.
    we hardly ever argued.
    it was perfect!
    I went out with my ex-fiancé until I was 20. We got together when I was 16.

    Live and learn, that's all I gotta say.

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