Wish i could remember school but i carn't.
Wish i could remember school but i carn't.
Not really, I was packed off to boarding school at 10 whilst my parents divorced, and despite being a very rich envoironment for bullying etc it never really affected me, of course there were instances where I would trade punches now and again, and one little twerp by the nick-name of 'JJ' decided to pick on me and taunt me everytime he walked past me - this went on for a month or so until I finally snapped and punched him so hard he flew backwards about 6 feet, hell of a nosebleed I might add
And that was it, about as exciting as it got really....
I guess I just put it down to my personality, I tend to get on with *most* people, and I used to be freindly with all of the gangs or groups, from the hardest characters to the weakest. Also I pretty much acted like the class fool/joker for as long back as I could remember, people just didn't take me seriously enough to bully me.. Bullies rely on you displaying the effect they have on you, when you're the class jester, well, they don't bother with you...
Thats my experience anyway.
I wish I wouldn't remember the most parts of it, since like 8 years were a living hell !Originally Posted by Apex
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Thats why i carn't remember, it hurt to be there so i locked it all away inside my head some where. :/
Last edited by Apex; 20-08-2004 at 07:37 PM.
Well, that isn't good either I know a lot of people doing that, I'm doing it too with some stuff.. ! But there isn't much you can do about it, right?Originally Posted by Apex
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Originally Posted by Shogun
You could say that. However, what I didn't get in school, I got from my father.
i got bullied at school, mainly cos i was quite quiet, i never really had any proper friends till i got to high school and i wasn't one for fighting. I also didnt really fit in cos i was from australia and i had an australian accent, i also had a lisp, i was quite chubby as a kid and i was the first girl to get boobs in the class *sigh*. Bleh, i'm sorta over it now, but sometimes some people say things and they still grate, but i can handle it, cos i've tough skinned now
Ouch! Doesn't seem that good I'm so sorry for you!Originally Posted by Theo
I got what I had in school and like I didn't get enough there I got some stuff from my brother and some other creapy guys..
I hope everything's better with you know!
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Yep the mental tourture of having "friends" that would back stab you ever time they could, been excluded from every social event ever. But as some people have said it makes you who you are today.
I went to Uni got rid of all the idiots in my life and have been very successful ever since, with some great RL mates on here.
Does it bother me any more, nope not by a long shot, they are part of my history and i won't forget it, but it makes me a stronger person having gone through it. IT takes a hell of a lot to break me with words now.
I feel sorry for anyone having to go through it, you just have to hold onto yourself - you aren't doing anything wrong, people pick on people who are different, kids in packs are vicious things, the horrible fact is if you could join a pack to not be the one they pick on most people would do it.
Its another Sheep tendancy i hate in human nature, one i will always try and make a stand against, Don't toe the line, SAY What you think
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I never really got bullied, I just got (and get) ignored by the majority. Never really bothered me that much when I had a certain group of friends, but with classes etc changing, I didn't see them much, and then it turned out lots of my other "friends" we just excluding me from social stuff completely. The thing is very few ever intentionally did it, but a few days later someone would say "Why didn't you go to XYZ's party?" And of course, none of my friends ever told me, and none of the other people know who I am anyway.
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I used to get bullied at school, we werent a rich family which didnt help, used to get called tramp n alsorts...
Funnily enuf it pretty much stopped when I nearly killed the ringleader of the bullies when I snapped one day....
It's true, it has made us what we are today.... and when I look at where the bullies are now, I wouldn't swap with them for the world
I've had a lot of sobering thoughts in my time.... It was them that started me drinking.
I got bullied until i trashed several ringleaders, then they left me alone, i fell into the trap then of becoming a bully until I realised what i was doing and stopped.
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I wasn't physically bullied a great deal. Just verbally. It got me down, but it wasn't anything too personal. Just dished out by a fair few. Constantly. Never had the balls to fight back then, but I would now.
I'd kill them if I had the chance. And I'm not kidding.
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I still get bullied at school, and it aint pleasant
At least I got hexus to escape from it for awhile
Oh my, that doesn't sound good at all. Well, I dunno what to say really..I used to get bullied, not much anymore though. But try to think of us here at hexus if that happends to you alot! We are here for you!Originally Posted by r1zeek
, I know it won't help you that much!
But we all care for each other here ! Try to remember you harder than anyone of those, who makes that to you!
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