But that is making the,
IMO, wrong assumption that what the system the UK already has in place can be likened to running your own household. It can't. For example, 63% of voters did not vote for the Party that has a majority in the House of Commons. We can't, by and large, vote on who sits in the House of Lords. We can't, or have not yet been afforded, the right to choose our Head of State. 4M UKIP voters ended up with 1 Member of Parliament, as opposed to the 1.5M SNP voters who got 56. The notion that 'we' would have control of our household is wrong. We wouldn't – the main political parties, within a system that is almost entirely geared towards sustaining them, would have control.
Arguing that we should leave the EU because of immigration, or economics etc, I understand. But arguing for leaving, or in fact remaining in, the EU for democratic, or soverign reasons is,
IMO, akin to 2 bald blokes fighting over a comb, and the distinction that you claim above just doesn't seem that apparent to me. For me, the choice can be summed up by the following:
Stay in EU – Decisions will be made by those that the majority of voters didn't vote for
Leave the EU – Decisions will still be made by those that the majority of voters didn't vote for
Most households, unless occupied by one person, will at many times be simply a microcosm of a commune; it's the nature of living with people. If we wanted complete control of the household, and make all the decisions, we would only ever live on our own. But there is always a price to pay in living a more insular life – especially when, as we see now globally, our environments are becoming increasingly smaller.