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[Lee H]

my god i wish i hadnt of bothered now i was only trying to be nice cus i no how it is to be hurt,

its not fair for you to judge most women by the acts of narrow minded few.

I agree with Mrs Fraggie on this one folks. There are nice ladies out there, not all of them are baddies who play mindgames etc etc, so it is really unfair to tarnish them ALL with the nasty brush due to the acts of a few.

[Allen]

I agree with Mrs Fraggie on this one folks. There are nice ladies out there, not all of them are baddies who play mindgames etc etc, so it is really unfair to tarnish them ALL with the nasty brush due to the acts of a few.

They do to us.....

[Zak33]

YO.....XA04.

I have some advice for you. Tonight, when it gets cold outside, go for a walk with no jumper or coat....just a t shirt.

Stand still, outdoors, and wait until you start shivering. Then, make yourself wait until you're actually quite cold. Best done f you're hungry too. ie...miss dinner.

Then....think what its like to be homeless, potless and hungry.

Some silly girlwho is not worth your time will suddenly become in-consequential to the horrors of life that lots of people suffer.

Then go buy a few copies of The Big Issue and help a homeless person

Life needs perspective. Pain in our lives, in our warm homes is easy. With our boradband and PC's and warm sofa's and nice beds.

Try it on the streets. in the dark. Alone. With no way to ever get yourself back to safety or security or health. Being in fear. All the time.

OR...put a bag on your head, wander areound your own house for 3 hours with no vision. None at all. Blind.

Ditto the above advice about Perspective on Life.

You'll be ok matey....I know you will . You're tough.

[XA04]

my god i wish i hadnt of bothered now i was only trying to be nice cus i no how it is to be hurt,

its not fair for you to judge most women by the acts of narrow minded few.

Sorry, didn't mean it like that, i know you was just been nice, and thanks .

I was just saying, i know there is nice girls/ladys out there, but most of them,.. just, agh. at least round here they are anyway

YO.....XA04.

I have some advice for you. Tonight, when it gets cold outside, go for a walk with no jumper or coat....just a t shirt.

Stand still, outdoors, and wait until you start shivering. Then, make yourself wait until you're actually quite cold. Best done f you're hungry too. ie...miss dinner.

Then....think what its like to be homeless, potless and hungry.

Some silly girlwho is not worth your time will suddenly become in-consequential to the horrors of life that lots of people suffer.

Then go buy a few copies of The Big Issue and help a homeless person

Life needs perspective. Pain in our lives, in our warm homes is easy. With our boradband and PC's and warm sofa's and nice beds.

Try it on the streets. in the dark. Alone. With no way to ever get yourself back to safety or security or health. Being in fear. All the time.

OR...put a bag on your head, wander areound your own house for 3 hours with no vision. None at all. Blind.

Ditto the above advice about Perspective on Life.

You'll be ok matey....I know you will . You're tough.

I know what your saying, i understand that , I know there is worse things in life, but i guess in this sort of situation that just doesn't come to mind.

Thanks for the advice/comments everyone, means alot!

[Zak33]

mate....don't just read it....don't just think you know what I'm on about...

DO IT.....

you will only feel the cold and the hunger if you do it.....

trust me...as it gets dark tonight you'll get sad again.

THEN>>>>>>DO IT!!!

[Auran]

I wouldn't quite go as far as Zakk (he gets a bit enthusiastic about things now and again ) but he's right in as much as you have to put things into perspective. Things could be a lot worse - I had 4 years of glorious happiness tainted by the fact that her parents spent 3 1/2 of those years trying to split us up. I'm not bitter about it as I know that they were only doing what they thought was best for her. Still miss her but I wouldn't change anything - I'm having far too much fun being single, though I'm worried that my PS2 and X-Box will burn out with overuse

Obviously its gets easier to get over lifes downturns once you get to our age as you have a lot more experiences to help, you learn to accept that sh** happens that you cannot control and just get on with life. At the end of the day you'll meet someone else and will then wonder what al th fuss was about

As for men messing with womens minds we just bumble about like the simpletons we are and then women mess their own heads up overanalysing what we are up to

Oh and I have outlasted the Eastenders Sunday Omnibus on numerous occasions - you'd be amazed what I'll do to avoid watching it

[Twigman]

Women are 90% evil...
I give the 10% to a few who can be nice...

Really you can never trust them...and you think you like them. But they really arent nice...and they play with your mind. They will take it and completely screw you over.
You will die. This is what old age is...the male body just gets pissed off with women after a while and jsut shuts down i reckon.

[XA04]

mate....don't just read it....don't just think you know what I'm on about...

DO IT.....

you will only feel the cold and the hunger if you do it.....

trust me...as it gets dark tonight you'll get sad again.

THEN>>>>>>DO IT!!!

I have done it before, when i go camping with my mates, with just a t-shirt and a broken sleeping bag, plus a broken tent, on a cold winters day, without sleep.

[Auran]

Women are 90% evil...
I give the 10% to a few who can be nice...

Really you can never trust them...and you think you like them. But they really arent nice...and they play with your mind. They will take it and completely screw you over.

I believe the quote goes "Just face it, all women are bunny boilers. It's just a case of which gasmark they use"

You will die. This is what old age is...the male body just gets pissed off with women after a while and jsut shuts down i reckon.

So how is it that married men live longer then?

Perhaps its part some diabolical female conspiracy to ensure that we are around longer for them to mess with your head

[Moonshade]

The only thing I can say, is that try to take it easy. Go with the flow, I know it's nothing near easy, but it's worth it. You said you're almost 16, and that leaves you plenty of time. And I for sure won't tell you anything of being too young to be in love.. my first real relationship, I got when I was 14. So..

Well, the thing between men and women is that sometimes..you (guys) seem to think that everything you say is the right answer to everything. And of course we think something similar about ourselfs. But it ain't something you can blame on the opposite gender. It's something that occures in every relationship! Even if it is between women + women or the other way around..

And it's all very individual..
I mean sometimes, we girls wish that our guys could be a bit more caring, at least show it a bit more. But I mean there are guys that are like this too..wanting their girl to act like that..
So some girls are more tender than boys, but it can be the other way around.
Girls can be real bitchy sometimes..I know it too.

Well, I wish you the best of luck!
-- Moon

[Kitty]

Women are 90% evil...
I give the 10% to a few who can be nice...

Really you can never trust them...and you think you like them. But they really arent nice...and they play with your mind. They will take it and completely screw you over.

well in that case men are 90% arse holes, and i give 10% to the ones who dont pick on women all the time
and yes you can trust some women like me im a trustworthy girl
women get hurt by men aswell, its not just women that do the hurting.... i got really hurt by my ex and ill tell you now iv learnt from the experience and its made me a far stronger person
thanks for the sorry tho loads of hugs

[fraggie]

does that make me in the 10% love?

after my last relationship i found that the only way is up and ive not looked back since

keep yer chin up and one day u will get as lucky as i have

*brownie points please hehe

[Kitty]

does that make me in the 10% love?

you dont pick on me for being a women, with our pasts we'r in a strong relationship and the only reason we are where we are is because we had to go through the misery befor hand.

and no brownie points you dont need them your perfect

[XA04]

The only thing I can say, is that try to take it easy. Go with the flow, I know it's nothing near easy, but it's worth it. You said you're almost 16, and that leaves you plenty of time. And I for sure won't tell you anything of being too young to be in love.. my first real relationship, I got when I was 14. So..

Well, the thing between men and women is that sometimes..you (guys) seem to think that everything you say is the right answer to everything. And of course we think something similar about ourselfs. But it ain't something you can blame on the opposite gender. It's something that occures in every relationship! Even if it is between women + women or the other way around..

And it's all very individual..
I mean sometimes, we girls wish that our guys could be a bit more caring, at least show it a bit more. But I mean there are guys that are like this too..wanting their girl to act like that..
So some girls are more tender than boys, but it can be the other way around.
Girls can be real bitchy sometimes..I know it too.

Well, I wish you the best of luck!
-- Moon

Caring, support and protection is one of the things i did best in the relationship .

[xs11ax]

violence is bad

[XA04]

violence is bad

yes.. tis.
unless if its for self defense.

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