Big birthday problem

[Mike Fishcake]

Don't forget the engagement ring and "I WANT YOU TO HAVE MY BABIES" carved into your bare chest with a stanley knife.

Always a winner, that one!

[Elmo]

lol, i got a pair of straighteners and a bbq in the park for my 21st from my bf

i would say get the album, flowers and a meal somewhere nice like everyone else. You dont want to make it too over the top cos she may get scared off, but you dont want to appear that you dont give a damn So i think that would be a happy medium and not *too* expensive.

[Steve @ SCAN]

was thinking perfume, what do you ladies think?

[Stewart]

Not going with the oven gloves then?

[Lee H]

hmmmmmmmm....meatball sandwich

lol, think your right. Will find a decent chinese

That all you can Eat in Manchester is worth it mate

uber loads of chinese lovelyness for about 7 quid a head...

or else the Red Lion does 2 meals for 5.25 .... depends what you fancy really

[Elmo]

was thinking perfume, what do you ladies think?

perfume's a tough one, you need to know what she likes, cos you could either get it very very wrong or very right.

If u dont know her well enough to know her fave perfume, then i wouldnt bother, stick with something relatively safe.

[Raz316]

hows about something cheap but relevant? Anything you've both joked about etc etc

Worked well for me

[herulach]

LIke others have said, flowers, amybe a CD and NICE resteraunt, all you can eat chinese != romantic. Although having said that, i took my first and only girlfriend to one just over a year ago for our first date and were still together, but i think i got special consideration for my general geekiness. Where abouts are you? Can reccommend a few nice places in leeds area if you like, other than that, french/italian, or if shes not picky, japanese, tepanyaki grill FTW!

[laura]

was thinking perfume, what do you ladies think?

Perfume's a bit keen for the first / second week of a romance...

[Steve @ SCAN]

point taken!.

perfume is off the list

so on me lunch am of to get the album and nice card but not too lovey and will make reservations at a nice restaurant.

Thanks for your help everyone!

[Matt1eD]

isn't an album a bit tacky

I like Vaul's idea

[Nick F]

you work for scan don't you? Give her a 6800GT

[Steve @ SCAN]

lol...am sure she will apriciate it, if not am sure it will spell the end of things and then i can use it!

its a win win idea!!!!!!!!!!!!

[shiato storm]

well, if it doesn't work out at least you can play the games bundled with it to console yourself. but you'd be gutted if she took them for herself

[tiggerai]

you work for scan don't you? Give her a 6800GT

Would work for me... anyone wanna volunteer to be a secret admirer?

[Rhyth]

New Jack johnson album IN Between Dreams, chicks will dig this mate. Good for sweet loving . Flowers are always good any time, if you can send them to her work so here friends can see even better

If you go out for a meal, dont get drunk faster than her (if you just get merry thats the sweetspot)