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little brothers are gits, i should know, i am a little brother
I used to get away with it though cos both brothers spoiled me rotten
Little sisters are just as bad ( is herself a little sister to two big brothers )little brothers are gits, i should know, i am a little brother
I used to get away with it though cos both brothers spoiled me rotten
lol just grab your nuts, take a deep breath then go up to her and say your piece.
If she is as shy as you say then she look to you for confidence.
Nemz.
god i think this is going to be a long journey lol. can't see me taking her out this weekend.
What do you think I should do tomorrow then? I probably won't see her again properly until next tuesday and wednesday but I will probably see her in the corridoor every now and then. Think I should apologise for today when I can? Or just forget it and just say hi and stuff in the corridoor? - either way, I don't mind, I just want to know what you guys think best.
This thread should be in gaming, your all probably thinking this is a great new version of the sims or something.
Sorry it turned out that way...it is always awkward when there are large groups around!
If she is shy, then whoever said it first was right, you need to be more confident. Too confident will turn her off, you need to be yourself, and you need to be just 5% ahead of her.
This brings back such fond memories :-)
If she doesn't go out with you I will be personally devastated!
Do the triangle trick if you see her please please please....probably see her in the corridoor every now and then
Men the world over await proof that it works!
lol.
Funny thing is, I see the nurse who helped me with my sleeping disorder still... like once a month now though, but she is helping me with confidence and stuff (just in general though, especially when I was going from home tutoring back into school). Although I can't say she's been helping all that much.
I can be confident with things, but with girls.. god, my mind goes blank, ones I like at least anyway. Can't be girls in general, because I have a friend at school who is a girl, and was talking to a girl yesterday in my maths class generally.. without my mind going blank.
First sign of love I am afraid - you can't ignore it! You can't relax, it all seems wrong....without my mind going blank.
I was exactly the same - how did I get around it? how was I cured? Deperation :-)
Don't worry though you seem to be soooo close. Say hi, smile, talk about "whatever you kids talk about these days" (lol now i know i am getting on..) AND DO THE LEFT EYE -> RIGHT EYE -> MOUTH flirt trick....
That's another thing though.. I find it hard to smile because I'm so shy.. I just remembered to post about that, I guess it's something you would have to seriously force. I can smile whilst thinking about her, but when I know she's there I can't lol.
I'll try the triangle thing sometime.... lol.
lmao, if that triangle thing works... im goin to have some fun this weekend lmao ^ ^ post results!
Make sure the forced smile doesn't look all wierdo!!
Once you have broken the ice you will be fine.
"Hi - i'll be honest - i really like you and would like to go out with you sometime.."
Your throat will be dry, palms sweaty and maybe some shakes. Once it is said though it is said
pmsl, please post all results everyone...lmao, if that triangle thing works... im goin to have some fun this weekend lmao
Yep, all those symptoms today lol, well, not too much with the shakes, little 'weak', but I could walk in a straight lineMake sure the forced smile doesn't look all wierdo!!
Once you have broken the ice you will be fine.
"Hi - i'll be honest - i really like you and would like to go out with you sometime.."
Your throat will be dry, palms sweaty and maybe some shakes. Once it is said though it is said.
Yeah that seems a fine thing to say, nice and simple, nice and quick, nice and honest..
I guess I'm proud in a sense of what I did today even though I did slightly mess up.. because a few months ago there was no way on earth I could of done this... a slight chance if I was pissed out of my head though.
Was probably a bit stupid expecting the 'scripted plan' to all... go to plan anyway.
should be prowd tbh you broke a barrier for youself in effect, you pushed yourself to talk to her even in a situation that you didnt want to walk in to
lola slight chance if I was pissed out of my head though
You should be pleased! You are at home dreaming about girls and I am up on the 32nd floor still writing code. Who would you rather be!
Its not the girls that cause the problem....its your attraction that confuses you. Dont pay too much attention to your emotional brain, find a way to relax and you will be fine.
oh and dont try to think of every possible outcome as that will scare you. (your feeding your fear of rejection)
If you must fixate on an outcome, then fixate yourself on you being successful.
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