Girls

[BEANFro Elite]

I'm not at all big on relationships myself, I'm often told I'm cold and like a machine.

I'm not really, I'm only like that to the girls I don't really think deserve me

In fact, I'm rather warm hearted and overly caring for my REAL friends and stuff... But my point is, I'm not all on display, if you want to really know me you have to come inside or dig in and take an interest...you won't have me THAT easily I'm afraid

That said, theres a girl at work who JUST joined last week, but we only just met on Saturday and we IMMEDIATELY clicked I'm going to ask her out next time

[tiggerai]

Sounds like an arsehole!
Sever all contact with him. Permanently.

Ahh, that's the point, that was 3 different boys... so not just a one off!

Boys FTW!

[shelley bda]

Ahh, that's the point, that was 3 different boys... so not just a one off!

Boys FTW!

Boys they are, because a Man wouldn't treat you like that anyway! who needs 'em when wev'e got computers and choklit!

[Swafe]

Hey.. girls are good Till they mess you about

[Jonny]

Boys < Girls < Chuck Norris

[tiggerai]

Boys they are, because a Man wouldn't treat you like that anyway! who needs 'em when wev'e got computers and choklit!

Amen to that sister!

I need me a man...

[Knoxville]

There are indeed some very nasty blokes out there, but in my experience men don't come close to the level of evil genius like ability to make your life hell that some women are blessed with. Theres a level of vindictiveness and backstabbing that men just aren't capable of namely because we're a bit to lazy and easy going, now I'm not saying all women are evil, because there are some genuinely nice ones out there but I've been messed about by some severe pieces of work in the past.

I've had women decide that rather than break up with me properly decide to try and pull my best mate infront of me, I've been stalked, I've been accused of rape, been accused of assault, you name it and I've had it brought on me by a woman, some of them havn't even been my g/f just vindictive mates who couldn't get what they wanted outta me.

The worst i've ever seen a man pull to get his own back is arrange to meet and stand them up to teach her that the whole world doesn't come running when she wants, hardly a comparison although it sounds like you landed a nice one 'rai a world class areswipe tbh.

[MantisCSS]

lol got that down to a T m8, im only 18 and been going out with my GF for bout 2 and half years and its all good, we top notch m8s more than anyhting which is cool, just went to barcelona in half term. was gd, girls are gd at being spitefull but only a small majority, u cant say one is like it so they all are.

[Butuz]

Girls are dirty

Butuz

[Elmo]

after a few bad experiences in the past, a few big mistakes, and a lovely lovely guy who i'd quite happily spend my life with but lived too far away and neither of us really wanted to move, i've found someone who is the male form of me. It's quite scary but i know for a fact he'd never treat me like crap and he only lives 10 mins down the road and we have millions of mutual friends. I wasnt even out looking for him.

there are good ones out there, but dont go looking, they'll find you

[Lee H]

I've found someone who is the male form of me

Now I'd wish I'd find a female version of me. I'm sure I've got more chance winning the lottery this Saturday than finding 'the one' anytime soon ...runs to get a ticket @ asda

I've noticed something really strange though over the last 2 years, people in general are not as chatty as they used to be. I used to be able to go to the pub, grab a beer and generally chat to anyone and everyone, but now the whole ethos and feel has changed to the point now I can't be bothered visiting the local pubs as everyone now seems to be blinkered.

Another thing that is really starting to startle me as well is the increasing levels of violence women in general are displaying towards men and women. For example - I was out one night in Manchester and there was a queue for the toilets and me being me was being chatty to the people queuing and was having a laugh with 1 girl in particular. The next thing I know I had a woman threatening to bottle me as I was chatting to her daughter who attracted "the wrong sort of guy" and because I was being myself and chatty she presumed I was a deadleg and decided to give me abuse

Anyway... I'm off to start deciding what to buy with my winnings

[shelley bda]

Another thing that is really starting to startle me as well is the increasing levels of violence women in general are displaying towards men and women. For example - I was out one night in Manchester and there was a queue for the toilets and me being me was being chatty to the people queuing and was having a laugh with 1 girl in particular. The next thing I know I had a woman threatening to bottle me as I was chatting to her daughter who attracted "the wrong sort of guy" and because I was being myself and chatty she presumed I was a deadleg and decided to give me abuse

Crikey! i wonder if she acts like to towards any guy that pays her daughter any attention

This is why i don't venture out much now, our town has gone terrible for drunken violence, i just don't think it's worth the hassle......

Only last friday a riot van had to visit a nightclub when it was kiddie disco night because a 14 year old had a knife and was threatening to use it, sad sad times

[Lee H]

Probably Shelley as she was "effin' and jeffin'" like the Royale family to men in general that night in the nightclub.

[vicar]

In Life Look Before You Jump.

Don't Sell Yourself Cheap, and You Won't Regret It.

Good and Bad Exist In Both Men & Women.

Remember Somebody Loves You, You've Just Got to find out Who.

Learn From Your Experience and Mistakes.

Make Love Not War

Move ON.

Just My 2 Pence Worth

[TheAnimus]

Make hate and participate. (I always feal obliged to say that when someone says make love not war).

My dad gave me some great advice about 2 years back, which i duley ignored, don't **** on ur own doorstep, now don't get me wrong, it wasn't german porn type activities but...
I got into this strange friendship with a girl i worked with. She had a boyfriend, whom she didn't bother to tell me about for the first two 'dates'. While i should of thought hmm she should of told me that at the start in case i had the wrong idea (which i did), i let it slide and we became friends. What i didn't realise is i was for about 5 weeks over the summer her only friend in town. Result was that she got very upset with me if i was say dancing with another girl, obsceenly jelous when it was someone better looking. That pissed me off. She did it once when a few of us from work were out, and everyone sorta looked at me as if i was the devil, regretably for her she is stupid, and then to improve her self esteme she started going on about her good her bf was, as such everyone was sudenly on my side. I basically told her that i didn't think we could be friends anymore, she went mental had a nice argument and basically ended with a massive strop. But because of what had happened, all work colleges were on my side, most of them are 18year olds who are just as clueless as me, but because they'd seen her been in need of physical re-assurance from me (hugs + cuddles constistanly, falling sleep on me on a long car journey) they didn't belive that I'd never slept with her (despite my protest) but all decided that they would like me, and hate her.

Upshot, we just had a new boss, who had left her last job because of problems with her ex bf. This new boss had no HR experiance, in a roll which requires a lot, and this girl decided to tell her that i'd got drunk and hit her. After I found that out i tried to make it as formal as possible, if i could get her to write it down i had a nice lawsuite (the time in question i was actually out with about 5 friends who would of been able to verify the fact that I didn't hit her, plus i've never been violent when drunk ever, they all know this, so no one belived it) problem was the new boss identified with it, and it made the girl even more isolated from the rest of the people at work, so she had dug herself into a whole she couldn't admit was a fabrication.

moral of the story, get a prostitute, even if you get caught/fined/community-service, its less hassle.

[vicar]

Dear TheAnimus,

I see you have:

Learnt From Your Experience and Mistakes,

and

Moved ON.

But i won't go as far as getting a prostitute, Life is too sweet for that.

Anyways there are too many good girls around, looking for some one decent and vice versa..