Welcome to the forum, Niko.
I think the principle thing we need to know is what is your budget? After that, how much are you willing to carry? - For the type of shooting you do, lightweight and flexible kit is important.
After that, local availability becomes a factor - are certain brands cheaper/more widely available in Thailand than others? The current running order of dSLR companies is
1. The big two - Nikon and Canon
2. The up and coming - Sony.
3. The niche players - Olympus, Pentax and Samsung (Pentax and Samsung share technology, and release virtually identical cameras under different names).
4. Minor - Panasonic.
In terms of lenses, you can go for specialised lenses for each king of shot, but as you have surmised, that adds weight and cost. You can get 'all-in-one' lenses, the current best probably being the Tamron designs 18-250mm and 18-270mm.
A note on focal lengths - on entry-level and midrange cameras, roughly <30mm is considered wide angle, and >40mm is considered telephoto - there are variations, especially for Canon and Olympus. For more in-depth detail, I suspect there are excellent sources already on the Internet.
Regarding image quality on dSLRs versus compacts, the main difference is that the sensor on the dSLRs is much, much larger than the compact, and with that size, comes increased light-gathering potential. This helps reduce noise and gives a 'cleaner' image. Again, there are excellent sources out there that go into more detail.