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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by Stringent View Post
    OK I just woke up and trolled through here.

    16?! Mate, get on with your life your GCSE's and A-Levels, get a job and then maybe you can think about 'the one'. We always wish our first 'one' will be the 'one' but the 'one' doesn't happen until you have had a 'few'.
    if this carries on for long, then it will be ****ing up my school work. logged in at school atm, just sat in the library.
    everyone else is doing a core PE lesson but i can't 'cause i've fractured a bone in my foot, (N)!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by Stringent View Post
    I know how you feel though, but seriously there are more important things in life than getting your emotions screwed over by a girl. So somehow swallow it, stick around with your other mates and have a good time with them.
    everyone has given me this advice, but it just seems impossible atm! i'm just soo about the whole thing. i need to talk to her in person without getting a slap and being told you ice-cream off.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lucio View Post
    So this is what you lot get up to when I go to bed! I really must try and stay awake for longer!

    Anyhow, my relationship with Mrs Lucio has been put through the ringer a fair few times and it's always come out stronger in the end because we really are meant for each other. Simple fact is, if she's not interested, then she isn't "the one".
    yes, they all turn into either peadophiles or total loonatics with the strangest of solutions

    i guess i'm just gonna have to bide my time with it a bit, see how it goes, and if she still isn't any more interested in a couple of weeks, then i guess i'll have to move on.

    i'm glad things have worked out for you pal
    just if all relationships went like that..

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lord Midas View Post
    I had a "the one" when I was 16, 18, 23 after that I kinda new that there weren't any "the ones".

    That is until now. At 36 I really and truely have found "the one". You just know. Before now they were just girls i had long relationships with.

    Matty, I seriously wouldn't worry about it. It might feel like it's the end of your girlfirends but, dude, you'll have another TOP girl very shortly. Either that or it gives you time to rack up your achievements on Xbox360
    as i've said many times.. everyone is saying they've found the 1 before.. and then it hasn't worked out, and that my case seems to be like that. which may well be true, but i'd rather it not be true. much much much rather it not be true.

    on the xbox 360 thing, i seriously need to complete PGR4, i absolutely own on it! i'm gonna get XBL soon, and see how i rank in the world
    i've racked up a fair few late nights on that game!
    and CoD4, all my mates have that game on either XBL or PS3, and they're all ADDICTED! they have to physically hide their console to get any revision/work done.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Look matty, ma have to agree with others on "the one", I went through with 18 ones to find the actual one , (yes i counted and even kept a record on each one till I found it weird and stopped doing that, and my gf burnt all that ) Anyways, now that I have found the one, I know, we are 4 each other, but its not because I love her so much, it is because She loves me back, as much...

    I asked her to forgive me, she made the effort to do so and try to make things work, that is how relations go on, you give her some time, if she is truly in to you, she will come back sooner or later, but if she is just impossible, know that she is not the one, because "the one" never quits on you, no matter what you do (Reader discretion advised ) Lol....anyways, dont loose heart, I was heart broken lots of times, if I hadnt cried it out with my friends and smoked it out, Id have screwed my life...

    so it would be good if you went out with your friends, preferably male friends, enjoy....flirt around, have fun...you'll feel better and you will soon find another girl, better than the last....but you give her time, dont quit on her, but if she is impossible, let her know you tried your best and that you wanted her back, but she made the choice, and then move on!....I hope the best for you mate
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by matty-hodgson View Post
    yeah, pretty much everyone has said that i'm just being 'young and foolish' to put it in such a way.. and i probably am, but i would still like to get back with her, i'd like that soooo much, but if things still aren't getting any better in a week or so, then i think i'll just move on, get wrecked with the mates, and get with some girl in a bar.. and that'll hopefully take my mind off it.
    Even though you say you are really serious (and don't worry too much about being young & foolish, you'll wish that back when you're old & foolish) - doesn't the fact you're already thinking ahead to what you'll do if you don't make it up, tell you something? D'you think she'd be any too impressed if she thought giving it a week was all you had in mind - she'd probably like to flatter herself you'll pine away for a lot longer, people like to think they're not that easily 'got over.' Even people who've dumped the other party can feel a bit narked if they've found someone else really quickly, we've all got vanity. I think you'd expect to give something a bit more than a week or so if she's worth it. If you aren't prepared for that you're probably not too heartbroken... best of luck whatever, anyway.
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    you could always try the other approche.

    Sleep with as many of her friends + family as possible. Taking pics/vids to show her as appropriate.

    That way she will be so jelous, she'll be desperate to have you back.
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheAnimus View Post
    you could always try the other approche.

    Sleep with as many of her friends + family as possible. Taking pics/vids to show her as appropriate.

    That way she will be so jelous, she'll be desperate to have you back.
    I'm sure there's a flaw in that logic - but I just can't see it.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheAnimus View Post
    you could always try the other approche.

    Sleep with as many of her friends + family as possible. Taking pics/vids to show her as appropriate.

    That way she will be so jelous, she'll be desperate to have you back.
    I not sure that sleeping with her dad will help with the not being gay thing...

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    wait till she accidently stumbles across this thread .. hehe

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    True, since Matty Hodgson is probably your full name... she can easily identify you here lol

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by tiggerai View Post
    16 is too young to have "the one" seriously.

    You got too much growing up to do yet.

    You'll never get her trust back... once it's gone, it's gone.

    And come on, if she's the "one" why did you get off with her best mate? Drunk or not, If someone is the one, you don't even LOOK at someone else. (unfortunately, in my experience, they do... stuff happens)
    I agree completely....
    Trust is a difficult thing to rebuild, and as Tiggerai says, once it's broken, it never truely comes back.
    It maybe that she is the one, but until you've been out with more people, you don't really know what it is you want from life. Over the next few years, your perspectives on things will undoubtedly change, you'll meet new people and build new friendships, and eventually, you will find the one You've got years of hunting for her yet, so enjoy it!!


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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sair33 View Post
    I agree completely....
    Trust is a difficult thing to rebuild, and as Tiggerai says, once it's broken, it never truely comes back.
    It maybe that she is the one, but until you've been out with more people, you don't really know what it is you want from life. Over the next few years, your perspectives on things will undoubtedly change, you'll meet new people and build new friendships, and eventually, you will find the one You've got years of hunting for her yet, so enjoy it!!
    I concur. However, I also think the worst thing can do is push the issue... give her some space i.e. leave here alone completely for a bit. If its meant to be you'll sort things out.

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    Quote Originally Posted by SiM View Post
    True, since Matty Hodgson is probably your full name... she can easily identify you here lol
    that would be fantastic
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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

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    that would be fantastic
    Trust Matty Hodgson?

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    Re: how do you get a girl to trust you again?

    its only a matter of time before no one with trust matty hodgson, quite rightly.
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