It's less to do with the socket than the silicon, if they release a chip with a hybrid DDR3/4 memory controller, then it is possible that you could get DDR4 supporting servers and DDR3 supporting desktops on AM3++, but unlike DDR2/3 DDR4 isn't a simple "speed bump"* with those the controller was similar enough that it really didn't take much die space to support both, going to 4 would mean having to duplicate an awful lot of the mem controller on the die to support two different standards.