Cheer up.

[Phage]

Really feel for you but please do try to ignore the emails. Tell her why your doing it, so as not to hurt any more feelings than necessary. Set a date when you'll be back in touch, and then take a little holiday.

And we love you too...<cough>...in a manly way obviously.

[MadduckUK]

on the positive side, its going to make Christmas cheaper

[Disturbedguy]

Really feel for you but please do try to ignore the emails. Tell her why your doing it, so as not to hurt any more feelings than necessary. Set a date when you'll be back in touch, and then take a little holiday.

And we love you too...<cough>...in a manly way obviously.

Haha, manly..of course.

I suppose your right..it's just setting that date I guess. I am pretty sure she would understand. Worse for me, my first proper long term relationship...

[Phage]

We've all been there.
Just don't try to hang on to the relationship any more than you really must. I know that it is so tempting to go back to what you know, but for your mental health a little time out would be a great idea.
Oh - and stay off the booze.

[Disturbedguy]

on the positive side, its going to make Christmas cheaper

Yeah, that is another way to look at it.

Staying off the booze will be easy, I dont drink any more, nothing fizzy at all.

Thats exactly the thing Phage, for me a normal week used to be go to work every day then go home, except friday when I would make my way to Mandi's (Thats her name btw) then spend most of the weekend there.

So that will be odd on friday, already planning a weekend with mates though..should be fun

[tiggerai]

So that will be odd on friday, already planning a weekend with mates though..should be fun

That is the best thing to do... get out of your old routine, find something new to try, get some new friends.... enjoy life

I did this for 2 years after my second long-termer went sour (he cheated on me twice) and really enjoyed it.

[MadduckUK]

find something new to try

or someone

you cant hang around, talk to or think about her though or you'll be forever thinking there may be a chance of getting back together. anyway, the first breakups always a bastard, i coped very badly i seem to remember

[Phage]

first breakups always a bastard, i coped very badly i seem to remember

I think that goes for all of us.
That really is the world's best emoticon...
Basically what the Tiggerai and Madduck said. Good advice.

[Disturbedguy]

Right....friend finding it is..so who wants to be my fwiend!

[tiggerai]

or someone

you cant hang around, talk to or think about her though or you'll be forever thinking there may be a chance of getting back together. anyway, the first breakups always a bastard, i coped very badly i seem to remember

I ended the first one... but the first time the second one broke up with me (I went back... stupid girl) I was a mess. complete and utter wreck.

yes, try someone, try a few...

(but avoid madduck when he's on the vodka, he gets a bit handsy....)

DG - you gotta come to that LAN now.... nothing stopping you.

[Disturbedguy]

Indeed tigs!
Apart from traveling and maybe a rig

[tiggerai]

Indeed tigs!
Apart from traveling and maybe a rig

Both of which we can sort...

[Disturbedguy]

Indeed!
*beep* *beep*

[MadduckUK]

so thats a yes you will come along to the next one?

[Disturbedguy]

Yes to the LAN.
Yes I would love to attend the next LAN.
Wanted to come to this one, but was skint after my holiday!

[Disturbedguy]

Have just realised..that being in work, and it being quiet is not a good thing!