Why my relationship failed (getting it out of my system)

[Nikomus]

Incredible empathy and consideration on show in this thread, I hope it stays. I tend to lurk more than I post, but this shows the support is here for you on Hexus, whether it's your new graphics card that's broken or your heart.

I found it pretty hard going a couple of years ago, it probably won't help to elaborate hugely on the specifics, but what helped me most was getting out and about with new people, along with having people to talk to online when I didn't have anywhere to be. It was always hardest when I was alone in my room with just my thoughts for company.

Good luck for the future to everyone here.

Niko =)

[Andeh13]

Go out & get laid, i wish it was that easy! I have had some fun in the clubs over the last couple of weeks, hollow emotions but its all fun & games so i wasn't complaining. Ex never wanted to kiss me spontaneously so it was nice getting with some girls that did, again even though they were just hollow victories

Had a better day yesterday, keeping busy as best i can and still fighting the emotions of wanting her back. Just keep reminding myself she wasn't right for me, she took me for granted on so many levels and that i wasn't truely happy with her. I look back on the good times with her & realise nothing jumps out at me for almost the last 2 years. Still got a couple of good looking girls as my desktop background, reminders of what I have to look forward to one day!

[Disturbedguy]

Andehh, I too sat and thought about the good times and again nothing really stands out.
My boss asked my yesterday "What is it you miss about her?" I couldnt answer, which says a lot for just how much of an impact she actually had on me.