The thing is mate BF3 wont be a proper BF game imho because you and i know for a fact it will also be in development for consoles and their is no way they are going to make the pc version have 60+ player count and huge open sandbox maps while the console version will be a cut down version of it.
Lets face it, consoles cant even do 32 players in its current state in this engine so thinking it can do 60+ on a map twice the size is asking too much for a 5 year old console.
If BF3 was a PC exclusive then all our wishes could come true but we all know for a fact the chances of DICE making a BF pc exclusive game is around the same chance that england has of winning the euro 2012.